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Are You a Medicator or a Compensator?
Not all addiction starts from the same place. Knowing which type describes you can change how you approach breaking free for good.
What Real Accountability Actually Looks Like
Plenty of Christians have technically “tried” accountability. Few have tried the real thing. Here’s what separates a version that works from one that doesn’t.
What Adam and Eve Teach Us About the Anatomy of Denial
Genesis records humanity’s first sin — and its first cover-up. The pattern Adam and Eve set in the garden is still playing out in addiction today.
Why We Call It "Sexual Heroin"
Sexual sin is instantly available, deeply hidden, and dangerously progressive — a combination that makes it more addictive than most people realize.
The Armor of God, Explained Piece by Piece
Ephesians 6 gets read aloud in church constantly. Few of us stop to ask what each piece of armor actually means for a man fighting to stay pure.
Why Group Counseling Works Better Than Going It Alone
Most people picture counseling as private and solitary. At Pureheart, we recommend the opposite — and here’s why it works better.
Breaking the Acting-Out Cycle
Addiction isn’t just painful — it’s repetitive. Here’s why the same cycle keeps looping, and what it actually takes to finally break out of it.
Why Accountability Is the Most Neglected Spiritual Discipline
Prayer, fasting, and Scripture reading get taught constantly. Accountability, one of the clearest commands in the New Testament, almost never does. Here’s why that gap matters.
Denial: The Giant You Never See Coming
The most dangerous enemy in recovery isn’t the sin itself — it’s your own mind’s ability to convince you there’s no problem at all.
Private Pervert vs. Captain Clean: Which One Are You?
Every man caught in sexual sin eventually meets two characters: the one hiding in secrecy, and the one who’s found freedom through honesty. Which one are you right now?
Welcome to Stage 1: Operation Purity
Every man and woman fighting for purity starts here. An introduction to the foundational training behind everything in this series — from destroying denial to breaking the acting-out cycle.
For Wives: 5 Things I Wish Someone Told Me Before My Husband's Recovery
Every wife who calls us asking for help is really asking one question underneath all the others: am I going to survive this? One wife shares what she wishes she’d known from the start.
Special Ops! An Introduction
Your Special Ops mission, should you choose to accept it, is to turn your wounds into wonders so that you can become a spiritual father or mother deeply impacting the lives of those who cross your path and passing on a powerful legacy of transformational healing and hope. Get to work, brothers and sisters, there is no time to lose!
From Prisoner of War to Combat Veteran
I conclude with tips for transforming yourself from a hapless POW to Christian warrior known and feared by demons. Remember what the demon said to the sons of Sceva (Acts 19:15): Jesus I know, and I know about Paul, but who are you? Does the devil know and fear your name?
And before you get all modest, fearful, and/or hopeless, remember how screwed up, addicted, and demonized I used to be. If I have a Wanted poster in hell with my face on it, then any Christian can get one! It definitely takes courage, but it isn’t rocket science.
Here are some tips to get you started. But expect much more ammo for the fight in later chapters.
Satan’s Methods: Footholds
A foothold is not a mindset; it’s a “lifeset,” an entrenched way of life, a behavioral pattern, a repetitive habit that over time opens the door for the literal presence of demons.
Satan’s Methods: Heartholds
A hearthold is all about your passions and your dreams, the secrets of your heart, the things you think about when you fall asleep at night. Maybe it’s a 1964 Ford Mustang, maybe it’s your fantasy football team, maybe it’s the business you want to start, or that novel you always meant to write. Perhaps it’s a co-worker? She’s looking mighty fine, whereas your wife can’t seem to shed those 30 pounds after having your last kid. Demons love to stoke the fires of old flames, reminding you constantly of just how good and pleasing and desirable achieving a particular fantasy would be.
Satan’s Methods: Strongholds
Like Adam and Eve, if demons can get you to swallow a lie (You’ll will never be free…), then they are well on their way to winning the war. Specifically, demons will attempt to control your mind by filling it with Strongholds. A stronghold is a mindset, an entrenched mental pattern of thought, a habitual attitude, a set of beliefs, a paradigm that always has at its core a lie or multiple lies of Satan.
Satan’s Tactics
How Does Satan Neutralize Christians?3 Primary Means: Demons, the World, Carnal Christians. As a memory aide, picture the devil’s 3-pronged pitchfork. The primary satanic means of taking out Christians is via Demons, the World System, and Carnal Christians.
Satan’s Objectives
Like the Christians in Laodicea, the devil wants you deceived, addicted, immature, and carnal. Even better, he wants you deceiving and/or hurting others, even though you claim to be a follower of Christ. Any of this sounding familiar? The statistics on American Christians, for example, are abysmal. Divorce rates, church attendance, Bible reading, tithing, witnessing, sexual sins and addictions—is it any wonder our country is launching itself off the cliff?
Who Is Satan?
Maybe this is why Scripture gives us this command: Be self-controlled and alert. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour (1 Peter 5:8). And yet you’ve likely lived a life immorally out of control and asleep to any threat posed by the deceiver of heavenly angels. You’ve been schooled by an extremely cunning enemy (2 Corinthians 11:3); indeed, it’s quite likely you are still deceived in some areas! The best kind of deception is the one you never notice! Wake up and smell the Father of Lies, brothers and sisters!